What to Do Once You’ve Cheated, Plus Questions About Doggy Style and Getting Out of the Friend Zone

by 6 years ago

Ask a BabeA. I’m going to assume this means that you told her that you cheated, since you’re saying she doesn’t trust you anymore. I think the best things you can do, after the honesty part, are basically just showing her that you made a mistake and you’re not going to put yourself in a situation like that again. Maybe dial back the partying for a little bit, and spend some quality time together. If you’re out with the guys, shoot her a text or call her when you get home so she knows you’re thinking about her. Basically there is no quick and easy fix, no one thing you can do that will make this go away, but over time if you’re consistent in showing her how much she means to you, and also show her that it was a one-time thing and you’re not putting yourself in that type of situation again, she’ll come around.

Q. My favorite position is doggy style. Do women like doggy and can they org*sm in this position? Thanks.

A. As far as if they like it, it’s entirely personal preference. Some do some don’t. Just like maybe you like vanilla ice cream and I like chocolate. Same applies here. And to the second part of your question, as far as I know, though I am not a doctor, there are no physical impediments. I guess it depends on how good you are and if it’s her thing too.

Q. Christmas is coming up and I need to find a good gift for my girlfriend. We have been dating for eight months now, and I know she is going to do something over the top, as that’s her style. What gift suggestions do you have that would be nice, not cheap, but also won't break the bank?

A. I’m so glad you asked! I recommend you consult my handy gift guide! Specifically for your situation I would suggest you consider the scarf/hat/gloves category, as most girls don’t buy them for themselves. They are soft and cozy and feel kind of luxurious, but you don’t have to spend a ton to get something nice.

Q. How does an attractive dude approach a hottie, when in her mind just because he is good looking she is putting up walls because he is attractive?

A. It must be really hard going through life being that good looking. In fact, I think I’m so intimidated by your good looks I’m not sure how to answer this question.

Q. What's the best way to let a woman know you wanna be more than friends? Without ruining the friendship?

A. Well, there’s no fool-proof way to ensure that it won’t ruin the friendship, because you can’t take back telling someone that you have feelings for them. If you really don’t want things to change, I wouldn’t say anything, but try being more flirtatious with her more often and see how she reacts. That will give you a chance to have a better sense of what her feelings towards you might be. If she starts to initiate flirting as well, then maybe she’s thinking the same thing. If not, then you guys should probably just stick to being friends.

If you want to tell her directly, then tell her that her friendship is really important to you, and you don’t want to risk losing that, though you do have more than friend-type feelings for her. Ask her what she thinks is best. Maybe she’ll say she feels the same or maybe she’ll say she just wants to continue to be friends. But at least by asking her instead of just making a move or declaring your love for her, you give her a way of politely saying she doesn’t want things to change, in case she just wants to stay friends.

Q. Is it true girls want to go topl*ss in public?

A. Nope. Thank you, though, for such a well-thought-out and insightful question.

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