From the forums. (Above is how you get our attention.) — Editor
What better way to DISCOVER how to get a woman into your bed than from a woman!
1. Make her feel desired
Make her feel desired but do this SPORADICALLY! Us women love to feel sexually desired, but if a man overwhelms a woman with this, then the novelty can wear off too quickly. Make sure that each time you look into her eyes and communicate your intention and what you want to do to her , that you immediately break rapport, by changing the non-verbal energy and the topic to something less intense and more platonic, as if nothing happened. I like to call this method ‘push-pull’. It’s a method I share with my students who have al gone on to tell me how much it has helped them! This method puts her in a mini state of limbo, and leaves her wanting more!
2. Convey the fact you have lots of women to choose from
Most women will tell you NOT to do this! But the truth is, women are usually attracted to men who have an abundance of women in their lives. It might initially annoy or concern us, but ultimately it makes us so attracted to them!
In order to achieve this, AVOID talking about your actual desire for other women, and instead, have a few pre-selected anecdotes about girls you know or have dated. But never make it seem you have an interest in them, because this will only provoke her anger.The aim is for her to agknoweldge that you have desirable women in your life and in your past, as this will produce just the right amount of jealousy in her, and as a result it will encourage her to want to impress you. A man who has conveys the fact that he has other women to choose from, demonstrates something I like to call ‘PRE-SELECTION’ and possessing this asset can literally seal the deal!
3. Be totally unapologetic about what you want in bed!
some men can can get a girl to do anything they want in bed, but the principal behind this that you need to remember in order to make it work, is to have and to communicate a totally unapologetic attitude to what you find a ‘turn on’.
Us women are so attracted to men who know exactly what they want in bed! However, if you show any uncertainty or embarrassment when conveying to a girl what you want in bed, then this will result in TURNING HER OFF. So remember to be bold when telling her what you want, and that boldness and unapologetic attitude, will convey your sexual confidence ,and it is PRECISELY hat sexual confidence that us women are searching for!
4. Create an ideal setting.
Now this might sound like common sense, but you would be surprised by how many times guys GET THIS so wrong! Always make sure that the place where you are taking the girl back to, is ready for SEX!
LIGHTING: Make sure you have flattering light. Most guys do not bother to invest in just a simple ‘light dimmer’ and regard candles and lamps as an unnecessary waste of time. However, women tend to be usually self conscious about their bodies and prefer flattering soft lighting more than the choice of either pitch black darkness or a bright and unflattering light!
SUPPLIES : make sure your refrigerator and kitchen cupboards are filled with quick and easy to prepare food and drinks! You don’t want her to find excuses such as:”Im hungry can we order some food?” or “Do you have anything to drink besides beer?” Always keep the momentum going, and never allow easily avoidable things become an issue.
CLEAN AND FRESH: Make sure your room/apartment is clean and tidy. Women love their creature comforts, so AGAIN do not let something as trivial as unchanged sheets or an empty pizza box become an excuse for her to not sleep with you!
5. Use future projections!
Women do not want to feel they are being used.They need some sort of reassurance that you will want to see them again. Rather than using logical persuasion on her, or coming across as desperate by promising her that you want to see her again! Simply throw in a few calculated ‘future projections’ such as:
“I Know this great Italian restaurant which serves the best desserts, I have to take you there”
“I’m looking forward to seeing you when its winter/summer I want to see how you dress”
These are ‘throw away’ and ‘playful’ future projections that plant the seed in her mind that you will both see each other again, without you coming across as desperate and without actually making any promises you can’t keep.