‘How Do Co-Workers Think They’re the Main One??’: California Woman Brings Her Man Coffee To His Job. Then His ‘Work Wife’ Sees


A simple coffee delivery to a boyfriend’s workplace turned into a chaotic confrontation that left one woman covered in iced coffee and questioning everything.

The viral saga, which has racked up millions of views, exposes a workplace affair in the most dramatic way possible.

Why Did This Woman Attack Her?

In a series of viral videos with a combined 3.5 million views, content creator Sandra Lopez (@sandraat.6) shares the shocking story of what happened when she decided to surprise her boyfriend with iced coffee at work.

“Girl, come with me to drop off some iced coffee to my man’s job and also to see if he’s talking to other females,” she says at the beginning of the first video.

The text overlay reveals what happened next: “His work gf threw it at me because she thought I was the sancha and she was the main.”

In the video, Lopez’s car seat is covered in iced coffee from where it was thrown at her.

In her follow-up storytime video, Lopez explains she almost didn’t go to his workplace that day because she didn’t have gas in her car but decided to trust her gut feeling and make the trip anyway.

“I literally drove all the way up there. I still even, like, handed him his drink. We talked for a little bit,” she explains in the video.

After her boyfriend walked off, Lopez stayed in her car for a bit. That’s when she says things took a wild turn.

“All of a sudden, like, I just hear, like, someone, like, yelling, like, arguing, like, mad,” she says. “And I turn around, and I’m like, who the fuck is that? And I see her literally, like, running up to my car with the coffee that I gave my man.”

Lopez says she had her window up when she saw the woman running toward her car. As she rolled the window down to see what the woman wanted, the co-worker threw the iced coffee at her.

“Thankfully it did not hit my daughter, did not hit her car seat. It didn’t touch her at all, because oh my goodness,” Lopez says, noting that commenters said they would have been in jail if someone had endangered their child like that.

A Shocking Twist

The woman ran away after throwing the coffee, Lopez recounts, but Lopez chased after her and started swinging. That’s when she says her boyfriend intervened and dropped a bombshell.

“My baby daddy was already there, and he pushes me, like, so I swung at her, like, once, just literally once, and he, like, kinda, like, pushes me, and he’s like, ‘Stop. She’s pregnant,'” she says.

Lopez’s reaction was immediate: She says she slapped her boyfriend.

But then she says she heard her baby crying in the car and ran back to check on her daughter. She says her boyfriend ran in front of her car trying to stop her from leaving, refusing to move even when she revved the engine at him.

The other woman ran up to check on the boyfriend, which Lopez found absurd given that she was the one who had just thrown coffee at Lopez’s car.

Lopez says she decided not to file any claims with police, noting the woman is pregnant. However, her boyfriend has been blowing up her phone trying to justify his actions.

In the final video, Lopez admits she might be “a dumb b—-” for considering taking him back, acknowledging that he has her “in a chokehold.”

The Problem With A ‘Work Spouse’

The concept of a “work wife” or “work husband” has become increasingly common in modern workplaces, referring to a close platonic friendship with a colleague. However, as Lopez’s story illustrates, these relationships can sometimes cross professional and personal boundaries.

According to Newsweek, work spouse relationships are characterized by a close, platonic bond similar to marriage, where co-workers share a chemistry resulting from shared interests, values, or compatible personalities. The relationship typically involves being each other’s “go-to” person and confidant at work.

While many of these relationships remain strictly platonic, they’ve become more prevalent over time. NBC News reports that 70% of business professionals currently have or have had a work spouse, up from just 32% in 2006.

However, the same survey found that 7% of professionals admitted they’ve “crossed the line” with a work spouse.

Experts warn that workplace relationships can blur boundaries when spending significant time together. The proximity, shared experiences, and emotional intimacy that develop from working closely together can create complicated dynamics, especially when clear boundaries aren’t established and maintained.

Commenters React

“How do coworkers think they’re the main one??” a top comment read.

“She must see him outside of work too,” a person speculated.

“Press charges that is literally a felony. Get a bag, b smart,” another wrote.

“WITH YOUR BABY IN THE BACK,” a commenter noted.

BroBible reached out to Sandra Lopez for comment via TikTok  direct message and comment. We’ll be sure to update this if she responds.

Stacy Fernandez
Stacy Fernández is a freelance writer, project manager, and communications specialist. She’s worked at the Texas Tribune, the Dallas Morning News, and run social for the Education Trust New York.
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