Strangers casually being rude to you in public usually has no consequence for the transgressor. After all, you do not know them, which makes it difficult to call them out in any meaningful way.
Most people shrug it off, maybe complain to their friends about it, and move on with the night.
For one group of women out at dinner, that was not how things ended. Instead, a so-called “girl’s girl” stepped in, took control of the situation, and made sure the behavior came with a price, after her own husband was allegedly the one causing the problem.
How It All Went Down
TikTok creator Daniella (@chaldolife321) posted a short clip showing a glimpse of the interaction, going viral with over 11.2 million views.
“This girl’s husband was rude to us and she made him pay $500 for our whole bill,” Daniella wrote in the video’s caption.
In the clip, a woman stands next to a table of women and speaks to a waiter, pointing toward a man sitting farther away. “He’s paying for it,” she says, making it clear who is covering the bill.
Off camera, Daniella laughs and reacts in real time. “Oh my God,” she exclaims.
The woman does not stop there. She orders Fireball shots for the table while her husband hands his card to the waiter. Moments later, he appears to apologize and kisses his wife on the cheek. The women at the table thank her, laughing as she gets ready to leave. Daniella later adds in the caption, “She’s a girl’s girl for sure.”
TikToker Shares More Details In Part 2
In a follow-up video, Daniella fills in the backstory and explains how the situation started in the first place.
“Basically, our table was right next to the restroom,” she says, explaining that anyone heading back and forth had to pass by them.
According to Daniella, the woman’s husband appeared drunk and kept walking past their table multiple times. “Every time he would pass by, he would make comments toward us,” she says, adding that they were “not very nice ones.” In the comments section, she maintains she doesn’t remember the exact comments he made.
Daniella explains that the group initially brushed it off. “We didn’t take it personal,” she says, noting that they assumed he was drunk and decided not to escalate things.
That changed when the man’s wife approached the table looking for him. The women identified him and told her what had been happening. “He’s being rude to us,” Daniella recalls telling her.
The wife’s reaction surprised everyone. “She’s like, ‘What? He’s being rude to you?’” Daniella says. From there, things moved quickly. The woman confronted her husband and demanded his card. “Give me your card. You’re paying for their entire bill,” she says in the retelling, describing how the woman flagged down the waiter and asked for the total.
When the waiter said the bill was around $500, the woman reportedly did not hesitate. “You’re paying for their bill,” she repeats. Daniella says the group felt caught off guard but appreciative. “We were like, ‘Oh, OK. That’s so sweet of her,’” she says.
Daniella says the final total came out to almost $600 with tip.
“She paid for our almost $600 bill, and we called it a day,” the TikToker states, describing the woman as “the sweetest person ever.”
Commenters React
“The way he came back and said sorry to her then kissed her,” one person wrote.
“He embarrassed her in front of the girlies and she wasn’t having it. I love her!!” another said.
“Unpopular opinion: I love that she was visibly upset by his rudeness, called it out, addressed it, rectified the situation, and still never disrespected her husband all in the same breath! A Queen,” someone else commented.
“Her aggressively ordering stuff for your table is killing me,” another joked.
“SEE HOW HE HANDED THE CARD OVER, HE ONLY APOLOGIZED TO HIS WIFE AND EXITED QUIETLY. how yall men need to be watching this rn,” one commenter added.
@chaldolife321 She’s a girls girl for sure😛
Who Is Considered A Girl’s Girl?
A “girl’s girl” is a woman who supports other women, both publicly and privately. It can look like cultivating close female friendships or standing up for another woman in a room full of men. A girl’s girl would never accept “you’re not like the other girls” as a compliment nor would she throw another woman under the bus to look better in front of anyone else.
The concept gained traction as a response to the viral “pick-me girl” trend, a term pulled from a scene in Grey’s Anatomy where a character asks a married man to “pick” her over his wife.
Over time, “pick-me girl” came to describe women who put other women down to gain approval, whether through flirting with someone else’s partner, constant comparisons, or dismissive behavior toward female friends.
While the exact origin of “girl’s girl” is hard to pin down, it surged on TikTok around 2023 and has since become part of the internet’s vocabulary.
BroBible has reached out to Daniella via email to find out more about the interaction.