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Just because you are in a relationship that managed to make it through December 11th, also known as the biggest breakup day of the year, it doesn’t mean your partner is being faithful.
You still might want to keep an eye out for signs and behaviors that are red flags in a relationship that could mean your partner is cheating on you.
Thankfully, there are people out there who are experts on the subject and are willing to share their knowledge.
One of those people is private investigator Aaron Bond of Bond Rees Private Investigations.
He recently shared some of the most common behavioral traits you will see in cheaters with The Sun.
His first clue has to do with how your partner behaves with their phone.
“If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful,” he advises.
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
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Other clues have to do with how your partner behaves around you, both in and out of the bedroom.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag,” Bond claims.
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out.”
He also added, “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating.
“You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
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Keep an eye on them if they seem anxious or stressed. Cheating on a partner can wear a person out mentally, after all. That could cause them to suddenly start making mountains out of molehills.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere,” he said.
Hopefully, none of these will apply to you and you’ll end up having happy holidays.