Phone Sex Operator Reveals Freaky Stuff Men Had Her Do On The Phone And The Reason She Quit Is NOT What You Expect

Lea Grover, a 32-year-old “mommy blogger,” has come forward to reveal what it was truly like to work as a part-time phone sex operator while she was a young college student. Grover says that she chose working as a phone sex operator over more traditional jobs because “At 19 years old, I had very little real world experience that could help me make rent, but I had one skill that I found out I could depend on for a steady income” she wrote in a personal essay for The Mix.

That “skill” was (obviously) helping men jerk themselves off over the phone. Not exactly useful, but if you’re looking for some quick and easy cash I can see where she’s coming from. A student by day and a phone sex operator by night, Grover quickly discovered all the weird fetishes men have when it comes to sex.

The role also saw her hone her acting shops, as many of her clients asked her to play along with their fantasies in the strangest of ways. However, she says, she often had to make clear that she was just pretending – as it was part of ‘the rules’.

‘For example, a guy might call in wanting to have phone sex with a poodle. I could tell him I could pretend to be a poodle, and he could have phone sex with a girl pretending to be a poodle,’ she writes. ‘There are a lot of semantics that go into enacting taboo fantasies.’

On the other side of things, Lea describes how many men needed nothing from her save her presence on the other end of the line while they masturbated, seemingly simply happy to have ‘witnesses to their orgasms’.(via)

However, Grover states that the job eventually began to wear her down, but not for the reasons you’re all expecting.

‘It took a long time to figure out what was bothering me about my job, but after listening to some restaurant industry friends complain about their patrons, it struck me,’ she writes. ‘Nobody, not a single caller, had ever said, “Thank you”.

‘And none of them had ever said, “Goodbye”.’(via)

BOO HOO. Lady I don’t know what you were expecting – you’re literally there to jerk dudes off verbally. You’re not their friend, you don’t know them personally and you’re not inviting them over for Thanksgiving dinner at the end of the call. Why make it weird and say “Thank You”? Do you say “Hey man, thanks for flickin’ my bean real well even though you had a rough day, here’s $10” when your boyfriend gets you off? No. That’s weird. So I don’t see why you’re expecting total strangers to send you a fucking Edible Arrangement at the end of the night.

‘Night after night filled with dozens of people hanging up on me mid-sentence as though I didn’t exist started to really hurt my self esteem and self confidence,’ she says.

‘So I stopped doing phone sex and got a job working retail, like a “normal” college student,’ she writes.(via)

If you’re able to get past the whole “I am literally getting paid minimum wage to help horny dudes jerk off” but not the “Aw man he didn’t say ‘Have a splendid night’ at the end of my call!”, there’s something wrong with you. Seriously.

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[H/T Daily Mail]